Have you ever unknowingly placed your fears about yourself onto someone else? As we sat in our kitchen, Hubby & I...papers all over the table...he was getting ready for an important interview & I was helping him sort through his research on the company. I started throwing things out there to him about not being passive in the interview, showing excitement & taking initiative.

Hubby looked at me with an expression on his face (you know the one), the one that makes you shut up immediately. He said, "Have a little faith in me."

It hit me like a ton of bricks aimed directly at my head... was I projecting my doubts about myself onto him?...& simply put...is that what marriage is...having faith in someone else?